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Marriage & couples therapy

Is it possible to be in love again? Research says yes.

Marriage therapy in Kailua-Kona for couples of every generation and stage, whether you want to rebuild your marriage or make a clear decision about it.

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What marriage therapy is

Working through distress, together

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Marriage therapy helps couples acknowledge and work through distress to improve their relationship. It's usually short term, and the length depends on how much distress you're facing.

As a systems therapist, I look for the root causes of the problems in your relationship, not just the symptoms. Therapy works best with both partners present, and if one partner isn't ready, we can talk about individual work.

Marriage therapy can help you:

  • Rebuild your marriage after distress or infidelity
  • Fall back in love, and stay in love, long after therapy ends
  • Make a clear, informed decision about your future

What we work on

Seven reasons couples seek marriage counseling

We set your goals together at the first appointment. These are some of the most common reasons couples come in.

  • Negative communication

    When most conversations turn critical, defensive or cold.

  • Infidelity

    When one partner has had an affair, or one or both of you are considering one.

  • Growing apart

    When you seem to be just occupying the same space.

  • Unresolved differences

    When you don't know how to resolve your differences, or one partner acts out on negative feelings.

  • Thinking about separation

    When separation seems like the only answer, or you're staying together only for the children.

  • Christian & premarital

    Christian marital and premarital counseling for couples who want faith to be part of it.

What to expect

What happens when you reach out

  1. Reach out

    Call (808) 938-1900.

  2. Short phone consultation

    About 5 minutes.

  3. First appointment

    Getting to know each other, and the right fit.

  4. Your goals

    Set together, then the work begins.

Approaches

  • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (Gottman)
  • Systems therapy
  • Christian counseling, on request
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In person

A private office on Mamalahoa Highway in Kailua-Kona.

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Intensives & retreats

Half-day and full-day intensives, and two-day retreats for couples.

Questions about marriage therapy

Before you start

More answers are on the Fees & FAQ page.

Stephanie Daniels, LMFT

Still have a question? Ask on a short phone consultation.

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How long does marriage therapy take?

It's usually short term. The length depends on the level of distress in your relationship.

What if my spouse won't come?

Marriage therapy is most effective with both partners present. If one partner refuses, individual work may be an option.

Can therapy help us decide whether to stay together?

Yes. Therapy can help you make an informed decision, whether that means rebuilding your marriage or ending an unhealthy relationship well.

Get started

Take the first step

Call to ask about a consultation. A short phone call comes first, and then we set up your first appointment.

Call (808) 938-1900

If you leave a message, keep it brief and leave out sensitive details. We can talk about everything on the phone.

  • Location73-4350 Mamalahoa Hwy, Kailua-Kona, HI 96740
  • HoursBy appointment

In crisis? Therapy is not an emergency service. Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or call 911.